There comes a day in your life when you realize that it's time to stop living your life caring what other people think! Granted, I've never cared what people think about how I live my life in general. But I've always used my words carefully as to not hurt anyones feelings. And I've recently discovered that people dont always respond to comforting lie's! Some people need to hear it the way it is, in a cold hearted truth type of way! I am a protector of everyone else, my kids my friends and my family. If you hurt their feelings or if you do something to piss them off, I am always willing and ready to say words to you that will probably hurt your feelings and leave you feeling worse about yourself than you ever have (I have a special gift at doing that anyway). I'm going to start using those words against people who just annoy the hell out of me on a regular daily basis. It's eliminating time.
I've listened to enough people tell me lately how I should live my life, what choices I should make in my life, where I should go in my life and who I should date in my life. I've been told how I should raise my kids, how I should spend my money, how I should wear my hair, how I should dress and how I should talk. I'm DONE! This is my life! I'm tired of people wondering "What happened to the old Melodie?"! You mean the Melodie who walked around pretending to be a proper little Marine Wife who had to act and dress in a certain manner? You mean the daughter of two perfect parents who would NEVER raise a child to drink and swear? OR God forbid the single mother of three kids who would never wear short skirts or a shirt that may show some cleavage to a bar! Let alone leave her kids with a babysitter and go spend the night at a mans house! Guess what people! That person is gone. If you cant handle it, lose my number and delete me from your facebook. I'm single. I'm still (relatively) young and damn it I'm sick of people telling me what I should and should not do. I've listened to people tell me how to live my life long enough. Dont call me or text me or message me on facebook if you have ANY input on how I live my life! I'm done! You think I was a smart ass bitch before? Just wait.
